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Tanq's avatar

To your last paragraph, I do think that's where the hardest part comes in. The transition from small talk to true friends is tough. It requires opening up and forming an actual connection. At least for me, that's where the going gets tough. But you do at least have one thing in common and that's a pretty good start.

Overall fantastic reflection. I think I should reach out to those geographicaly close friends I don't message enough...

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ergosteur's avatar

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately myself. In 2019, two couples, some of my closest friends, lived within a 30 min walk from me (less by subway). Now 6 years later they’ve moved away and are now a 45+ minute drive away (with light traffic, 2+hours transit). I really took it for granted, it was wonderful. There have been a lot of changes in that time, but I think that on a personal level this has had a really big impact. I’m also wondering how to make new friends nearby as an adult. Really I think forced proximity to people is the best way to breed friendships. Anyway appreciate you sharing your thoughts, and I hope you find some new connections.

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